tell me…..
Assalamualaikum bloggy
a life-based question to ask…. what does true friends mean… is it those that always never FAIL to ‘lepak’ with you..for example at mamak stall or nz 24/7… (same as the time mamak stall open and closes).. or those that maybe don’t have THE TIME for you..and do not fond of ‘lepaking’ but you can always assure that you always have a special place in their heart… or does friendship means… having those that never fails to be with you when you are happy…or… those that never fails to attend you when you are sick and sometimes says the hurtful things in order for you to see the truth?
mane satu ek bloggy…soo tell me..what does true friends mean…please clarify things for me…because i need to be SAVE… does true friends mean going to clubs together..having the time of their life…although you know that basically what you are doing is TOTALLY wrong… or does true friends means accepting people as it is and remind them that some things are wrong even though it is fun to do it…
i’m confuse and hurt bloggy..confuse thinking that where do i actually stand…and hurt when realising the truth…where the truth is i am nothing… harsh isn’t it…alas i can’t run away from the fact…can you bloggy when you have see things so clearly…soo clearly that you can’t cover it up..and the pain swallow you whole..
what does true loves mean bloggy? does it mean loving someone that when you are so in love..you don’t realise what is the reason you love that someone.. (is it the eye, the smile, the joke, etc)… or does true love mean to change someone according to your need and demand…and making the ones that we thought we love be the person that we wanted them to be?
or does it mean the physical attraction…where when you see ‘the one’… you are totally mesmerize…and uses the phrase ‘ love at 1st sight’… or does true love mean skin-deep? to me there is no such thing as ‘love at 1st sight’..whoever create this qoute must be bluffing…was it Shakespear that creat this MAGNIFICENT phrase..or was it someone else…
honestly..if anyone uses this phrase..i beg you…please find another..much more better pick up line..because if you uses this ‘line’ it shows how shallow you are and that you are just another part of the entity that live in a PLASTIC world.. a world where beauty is more then skin-deep… how i pity these kind of human being…and i pray to Allah..make them see..make their brain functional…and make them think before taking the ‘big jump’…. like old people would say.. think before you act..and look before you leap…
oh by the way bloggy… please do remind me that *jinx equivalent to bad luck.. i wouldn’t want to make such silly mistake..it will be soo unsophisticated of me..yuck!
November 7th, 2006 at 10:20 am
as far as I know, true friends will alwiz be there for u..thru ur ups and downs..like they say..a friend in need is a friend indeed..but the most important thing is to appreciate ppl who appreciate us =)by the way..jinx?rotten apple?come down?muahahahaha!!!!(sorry ppl, this is an inside joke)
November 7th, 2006 at 3:51 pm
Many people will walk in and out of your life.
But only true friends will leave footprints in your
heart.
To handle yourself, use your head;
To handle others, use your heart.
Anger is only one letter short of danger
If someone betrays you once, it is his fault;
If he betrays you twice, it is your fault.
Great minds discuss ideas;
Average minds discuss events;
Small minds discuss people.
He, who loses money, loses much;
He, who loses a friend, loses much more;
He, who loses faith, loses all.
Beautiful young people are accidents of nature,
But beautiful old people are works of art.
Learn from the mistakes of others
You can’t live long enough to make them all yourself.
Friends, you and me…
You brought another friend…
And then there were 3…
We started our group…
Our circle of friends…
And like that circle…
There is no beginning or end…
Yesterday is history.
Tomorrow is mystery.
Today is a gift.
That is why it is called the present.
November 7th, 2006 at 8:29 pm
tq my cutie pie planta …you never fail to make me realise that you are always there…
whenever i’m lost and my ship is sinking..i know that you will save me…
November 8th, 2006 at 12:10 am
A true friend will complete your sentence. A true friend will lend his/her shoulder when you need it (even though you didn’t ask for it). A true friend will cry with you, laugh with you and share your happiness and pains. A true friend will always dig out the best in you, see your flaws and together with you make it right…
November 8th, 2006 at 2:38 am
true frends are the people who u can count on…ups…n downs…if u need them or not…hahaha….but they will be there 4 u…there are alot of people you will come across who intend to be yor frend…u just need to be frends..not best frends immediately…
November 8th, 2006 at 6:39 pm
kak finez!!
i think when you’ve found a true friend, you’ll just know. it’s not something you can definitely see, its something you feel. and i think the same thing goes with love. i know this sounds cliche, but when in doubt, just follow your heart! =)
November 8th, 2006 at 9:25 pm
True friends?…The person who understand your situation/condition, considerate, share your opinion & respect your decision.
the word “will go through ups & downs ” is kinky..wait, not kinky..it’s SELFISH(forgive me for the harsh word). Nowdays that term has been overly exaggerate by people.
Seriously, everybody in this world has a life to go on even a close person you called friend. they even got a ’special’ friend that require their attention and asking them to always be there with you in up & down moment is merely a selfish request(again..sorry), not a responsibility. So, if they fail to turn up in the situation you need them the most, don’t quickly judge their friendship value.
Like us, they also got other best friend, family & life to take care of and to fulfill it all is nearly impossible for a human. Someone will be happy & someone will get hurt along the way..if everyone is happy, there’s no point living in this world since you wont learn anything at all, right?.
Now i feel that everyone want to shoot me
Oh, about the “love at the 1st sight” thingy….yeah, it’s kinky. XD
oh…ko lepak kat NZ ek?..haha..aku slalu lepak situ bila abis tgk wayang ngan member². Nih sabtu nih pon aku nak plan tgk wayang gak…ntah² jumpa ko plak kat situ..huhuhuh
November 8th, 2006 at 10:40 pm
hahah..tq to all those that have read my blog and give me better understanding about life and somehow make me much happier…
alah naim..i don’t lepak there..besides its a GUY territory..
love u dirah….tq for making things clear…love u