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assalammualaikum

bloggy..i’m really impressed..i never thought..my dearest friend sanggaram…said something so sweet..that it really make me change my point of view…he really touches my heart…and opened my eyes to see things much clearer now….

to guys out there..i’m sorry for misjudging most of you…maybe there are… a few or maybe more…of you out there that will treat women…or their wife.. as equal as they should be treated…

ok todays topic..herm what shall i type in you bloggy dear…sheesh..i’m out of idea..or shall i say..writers block? ( writer block konon…mmg tak ader talent nak jadi writer…grammar pun silap)

gosh..i really don’t have a clue on what should i type in you… oh yeah…bloggy i got a sad news…my cute lil planta’s aunty passed away this morning… and i feel so helpless when i heard she cried on the phone… how i wish i could be by her side and make her feel better…and say that things will be alright….

losing someone is really hurtful my dear darling planta..but its GOD’S will and we have to accept it…maybe its for the better…all we can do is pray for the one we loves and have strong faith that Allah will always take good care of those that we lost … and also that are still aroud us….i guess…after having my own share of experiences… i tend to accept that everything that happen might have its own ‘hikmah’…although i can’t deny that..at first i was sad..devastated.. mad.. angry..lost.. and there are many questions spining inside my head.. i realised that.. i too..oneday will die and perish on the face of the earth… and that nobody will escape the fact that death is a part of life cycle..and all of us will endure it…no matter what..

but all that i hope and pray… that… let my death and the ones i love and each living person that i come upon… meninggalkan dunia nie dlm keadaan tenang kurang seksaan…with the love ones by their side… and biar roh kami senantiasa dilindungi Allah s.w.t dari seksaan kubur dan akhirat kelak…Amin…

assalamualaikum bloggy

bloggy i got a question to ask you.. (like you can answer it for me..but hey…what the heck…at least i can try, can’t i?)..what do you think men who..when married to a woman..and put all the house chores…all of it to women…ok…what i’m trying to say is…men who doesn’t help their wife at all…is it injustice..or is it vice versa….

what ever it is bloggy..i think its totally injustice…and that men should also give a helping hand to their wife…ops…i’m sorry bloggy..maybe you might be wondering what’s with all this upsurge of ‘unstable emotion’..well…to start with…i had a ‘ deep conversation’ with my sisters..the types of men..who deliberately put all the house work to his wife and don’t even try to help around..and we found that most of this men..are typically being pampered ‘to much’ by their mother..and are so called as ‘mommy’s boy’….

soo what happen if their wife also works from 9-5…is it fair that…when she comes home…instantly she have to change her working clothes…and start doing her housewife job…while ‘the husband’ lay around…. sooo..actually if we calculate it all together..women DON’T actually work 9-5..but she actually works from 9 am to 10 pm…

mcm mane nie? do men always take women as superwomen? but Allah had created men..more highly complex then women..like…they have more brains…they have more strength..basically they have MORE then women…

actually bloggy…..are there men yang akan share the same load of burden with their wife..for instance..once in a while…why don’t the men cook dinner or maybe lunch…i’m not saying that they have to do it always…just once in a while…or maybe…do house cleaning/ spring cleaning with their wife during weekends…or make breakfast in bed for their wife to show that they care, gratitude…. etc….

i sound a bit feminist am i..tapi..its just a question… a harmless question that somehow make me think…my sister said that i have been reading to much CLEO…maybe they are right…but what ever it is…can’t men at least chip in with the house chores? would it be sinful to ask the husband to be more sensitive and help around the house?